Read the book "Who Moved My Cheese" by Dr Spencer Johnson and like to share certain things inside with all of you there. Personally I found them to be quite applicable to me.
Who Moved My Cheese
"Life is no straight and easy corrider along which we travel free and unhampered, but a maze of passages, through which we must seek our way, lost and confused, now and again checked in a blind alley.
But always, it we have faith, God will open a door for us, not perhaps one that we ourselves would ever have thought of, but one that will ultimately prove good for us."
A.J. Cronin
From pages 26 & 27
The Maze was a labyrinth of corridors and chambers, some containing delicious cheese. But there were also dark corners and blind alleys leading nowhere. ...
However, for those who found their way, the Maze held secrets that let them enjoy a better life.
From page 38
"I know we're smarter," Haw said, "but we don't seem to be acting smarter at the moment. Things are changing around here, Hem. Maybe we need to change and do things differently,"
(Thinker: Things are also fast changing now. But are we STILL doing the same things?)
From pages 40 & 41
The more clearly Haw saw the image of himself finding and enjoying the New Cheese, the more he saw himself leaving Cheese Station C.
"Let's go!" he exclaimed, all of a sudden.
"No," Hem quickly responded. "I like it here. It's comfortable. It's what I know. Besides, it's dangerous out there."
(Thinker: Does it remind you of someone you know?)
From page 40
Haw was getting tired of just waiting for their situation to improve. He began to see that the longer they stayed in their Cheeseless situation, the worse off they would be.
(Thinker: Are you tired of how things are now? Or maybe it is still not painful enough?)
Finally, one day Haw began laughing at himself. "Haw, haw, look at us. We keep doing the same things over and over again and wonder why things don't get better. It this wasn't so ridiculous, it would be even funnier."
Haw did not like the idea of having to run through the Maze again, because he knew he would get lost and have no idea where he would find any cheese. But he had to laugh at his folly when he saw what his fear was doing to him.
From page 45 & 46
Haw said, "Sometimes, Hem, things change and they are never the same again. This looks like one of those times. That's life! Life moves on. And so should we."
"If Your Do Not Change, You Can Become Extinct."
From page 40
What Would You Do If You Weren't Afraid?"
From page 50
Whenever he started to get discouraged, he reminded himself that what he was doing, as uncomfortable as it was at the moment, was in reality much better than staying in the Cheeseless situation. He was taking control, rather than simply letting things happen to him.
From page 61
After a while, Haw made his way back to Cheese Station C and found Hem. He offered Hem bits of New Cheese, but was turned down.
Hem appreciated his friend's gesture but said, "I don't think I would like New Cheese. It's not what i'm used to. I want my Cheese back and I'm not going to change until I get what I want."
From page 71
He had to admit that the biggest inhibitor to change lies within yourself, and that nothing gets better until you change.
Still expecting more, than you will have to pick up and the book and read it!